June 25, 2025

Ask for Letters of Recommendation for College

Did you know one of the most overlooked parts of the college application process is also one of the most influential?

That’s right. Letters of recommendation can carry significant weight in the college admissions application process. Strong letters can highlight student work ethic, character, and growth in ways that grades and test scores simply can’t.

At Class 101 Carmel, we help students plan ahead when thinking about letters of recommendation. Starting the summer before senior year, we help students begin the process so they can secure thoughtful, impactful letters that enhance their college applications from their top choice of recommenders.

Why Do Letters of Recommendation Matter?

Most colleges ask for 1 – 3 letters of recommendation. These are typically coming from:  

  • -A teacher
  • -A school counselor
  • -An extracurricular coach, mentor, or community leader

Admissions officers use these letters to understand a student’s academic potential, attitude, leadership, and how they interact with others and their community. It’s insight that helps round out your application.

When to Ask? 

The best time to start thinking about recommendation letters is your Junior year spring semester or summer before your Senior year of high school. That gives your recommenders plenty of time to write a letter before applications open on August 1st. Advance planning also ensures you won’t be scrambling during the busiest part of application season. 

Class 101 Pro tip: Some teachers get a lot of requests. You might remember that really popular teacher who was everyone’s favorite? Asking early helps you secure your top choice!

How to Ask for a Letter of Recommendation

Now that we’ve covered why these letters are important and when to start, let’s go through the best way to make your letter of recommendation requests. 

1. Choose the Right People

Select people who actually know you well and can speak to your strengths. Think about:

  • -Teachers from Junior or Sophomore year
  • -Someone in a subject related to your intended major
  • -Adults who’ve mentored you in clubs, sports, church, or volunteer work
2. Ask in Person

It’s always best to ask face-to-face if you can. Be polite, respectful, and clear about what you’re asking. 

Here’s an example of how to approach your recommender: 

“I’m applying to college this fall and would really appreciate a letter of recommendation from you. I’ve enjoyed your class and feel like you’ve seen how much I’ve grown as a student.”

3. Give Them Your College Resume 

Help your recommender write a stronger letter by giving them a quick summary of your accomplishments, extracurriculars, goals, and what you hope to study in college. This allows them to include these details in their letter!

4. Send a Thank You

After they’ve submitted your letter, send a handwritten note or a thoughtful email thanking them. Gratitude goes a long way and can help maintain a strong relationship for future reference requests. 

Looking for more guidance? 

Class 101 works with students to create a list of potential recommenders, assists with preparing college resumes, and keeps track of deadlines and submissions so parents don’t have to! 

Whether you need help asking for recommendations, writing essays, preparing for the SAT or ACT, or finding scholarships, Class 101 Carmel is here to help.

Schedule your free consultation and start planning for college with confidence!

Randy Stegemoller

Class 101 Owner + College Advisor

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